Whether we succeed or fail in dating, positive outlook always helps. Let us look at this in detail and find out if you have positive outlook in dating? Does it help if we always think of negative results? Does that improve our probability of success? I agree that you may not be a real choice date, but does that thought help? And let me ask you – who is a choice date? Can you find out one person who does not have faults? Or who is perfect? No, all of us something imperfect and that is why we are all human beings.
Many people carry inferiority complex from their childhood. It is not surprising to find children making fun of a child whose nose might be too big or small or something else. Sometimes, our parents give us these complexes by telling us how we are not good at something, repeatedly. We grow up with such complexes and that damages our self-respect.
We carry forward such ideas in any activity we take up when we grow. If we were called sloppy in our childhood, we are conscious of that while we are employed and worried that our boss should not notice our sloppiness. The facts may be contrary. We may not be sloppy at all, but the childhood memory remains with us.
Are you carrying any such ideas in dating? Please drop them. Keep a positive outlook. Fell good about yourself. You are good, whatever others may say and you deserve somebody equally good. Go forward in a positive frame of mind and project confidence. As I said before all of us have something wrong with us and you are no different. Better would be focus on your positive qualities and change your outlook to positive.